When you began dating your mate, she probably struck you as being the epitome of perfection. When couples begin dating, after all, they go to great lengths to look fabulous for each other. Women pluck, wax, shave, bathe, exfoliate, and moisturize in anticipation of their dates. In the beginning, she may have spent hours perfecting her nails, make-up, and hair. The primping involved was intense and mandatory. The money and time spent to pick out the perfect outfit, not to mention the hot lingerie underneath, was measurable.

That outfit and sexy under garments probably ended up lying in a crumpled heap at the end of your bed the next morning. When you rolled over as the sun came up (or alarm started screaming at you) to find her curled up beside you, you probably marveled at the sight of your sleeping beauty.

Ten years later, you’ve found yourself waking up to a sleeping beast in flannel jammies.

She has grown a mustache, her morning breath is enough to burn your eyes, her legs are pricklier than a porcupine, she drools, snores, and now expects you to make coffee in the morning before she will open an eyelid. What the hell happened?

Now let’s be fair, this is not the bash women chapter. There is always another side of the story. It does, as you know, take two. Without you even realizing it, you have both become your parents. Which came first, you never sending her roses or opening doors for her, or her deciding shaving is a waste of time and make-up an unnecessary expense? Maybe you stopped going to the gym, wearing cologne and manscaping. Maybe you stopped noticing her. Sexual attraction breeds mind blowing sex, so it always strikes me as a bit odd when couples stop making an effort to look attractive for their mates. At this point it does not matter who did what to whom first. Get your act together and start treating yourself and each other the way you did in the beginning. Take the time, it is that important.

In marriage, men and women often slip into a comfort zone and, sadly, all that does is create an uncomfortable zone. They often end up loathing each other and feeling resentment, stop going on dates and ultimately stop having sex. And that is never good.

To me, having enough respect for your mate - and enough respect for yourself - to look good is common sense. Why would your mate respect you or find you sexy if you don’t respect yourself or find yourself attractive? It is imperative that everyday (ok almost everyday) you take the time to look good for yourself and your mate. Trust me she will follow suit and you will have never had to say anything negative. When she says “why are you so dressed up?” You simply reply, ” wanted to look good for you.”

It is true that we age and certain things that were up here are now down there. Our hair turns grey and falls out. Our eyelids become droopy. We have more wrinkles. But change is beautiful. However, a few pounds here and there and a few wrinkles here and there is a lot different from 80 pounds and three additional chins. When a woman weighs 130 pounds on her wedding and two years later weighs 170 pounds, I guarantee she’s not the same woman mentally. She’s most likely not going to be as fun nor as outgoing because she doesn’t feel good about her body. If you are the one with an additional 40lbs, I am sure you will agree that you are not the same man she met years ago.

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Most of us are not psychic so you need to learn how to communicate comfortably, effectively and aloud with your mate. It’s amazing how many people know nothing about the sexual side of their partner. My point? Your mate will never know your turn-ons unless you tell her.

Fantasies are destined to remain unfulfilled unless you’re able to find the courage to talk to her about the possibility of making them realities. Sex can be a sensitive, personal and sometimes embarrassing topic for women. That’s why you’ll need to handle it with care. Once you’ve learned how to communicate effectively with your partner, your sex life will probably improve ten fold. And, as a result, your relationship will probably improve twenty fold.

For some men, communicating about sex has been incredibly awkward since the indelible day their fathers took them on a fishing expedition to talk about the birds and bees. For some, the childhood awkwardness equated to “the talk” has set the stage for a life chock-full of awkward conversations. When discussing that topic, some men find themselves fumbling for words with the same gusto displayed by men fumbling for the football on Superbowl Sunday.

Since communicating can be such a lofty chore, men who want to talk about sex with their partners often get nervous in advance.

Those nerves often translate into mumbled sentences, stuttering and botched attempts at romance. Gentlemen, you need to relax. Remember there should be nothing embarrassing about discussing your sexual desires with your lover. The key to a smooth talk is to be you. Don’t change your tone of voice or stop telling jokes in between comments. Stay true to who you are and it will be a fun, lively and knowledge gaining opportunity.

A question that comes to my mind when I think about couples not talking to one another about sex is this: what else are they not talking about? The thought sends chills down my spine. Your chosen mate is just that. You choose them to be by your side, to know you and be known by you. So let’s put aside the idle chatter about shopping trips and honey-do-lists and start talking about things that truly matter. Topics that build relationships, trust and memories. Start simple and work towards that point where no topic is off limits.

Sexual gratification is one of the greatest gifts we’re given and I find it very sad that people get into relationships where they can’t even discuss what it takes to gratify and satisfy them. Even more discouraging and disgusting are the people who use sex to obtain things or have control over their mate. Some women are too embarrassed to tell their mates where they want to be touched. Her erogenous zones will forever remain a secret because she’s too embarrassed to tell it, or simply may not know. Some men, meanwhile, are too shy to tell their mates they want her to put on cowgirl costume and ride his pony ass around the house.

Whatever your sexual desires may be, communication is the key element to everything - especially to an incredible sex life.

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If you, like most men, are looking for a freak in the sheets and a lady on the streets, it’s important to tap into her erotic side early on in the relationship. Ideally, this should start before you promise to love her until death do you part.

You don’t want to find out the night after the wedding you married your sexual opposite. It can be deflating, or worse, the beginning of a downward spiral. As I have said before, most women do have an inner wild child, but you have your work cut out for you if you knowingly married a sexually uninterested woman.
Since the days of branding libertines with scarlet letters are behind us, it isn’t always easy distinguishing wild cats from lethargic, house trained felines. However, there are signs to look for that could confirm or dis confirm your suspicions of her being a closet wild child. From the way she sips her cappuccino to the type of footwear she sports, the signs are there. You just have to look for them.

Wondering whether your mate has the potential to transform into your sexual wonder woman? To find out, look beyond the obvious. If there are handcuffs locked to her bedpost, I shouldn’t have to tell you what that means. If there is an animal print theme in her bedroom, there’s a good chance that she’ll be an animal in the sack, too. Now, think outside the box…literally.

Some of the best indicators of a woman’s sexual prowess can be found in her closet. Shoes, for example, can convey a very sensual story. The difference between someone who wears a one-and-a-half closed toe wedge versus one who wears four-inch red stilettos is similar to the difference between a sloth and a cheetah. I am not trying to indicate that women who wear flats are in any way inferior to their heel-totting counterpart, I am simply trying to tell you that the sexual impulses of the two different shoe types carry women with very different sexual personalities. The woman with the stilettos is typically confident, edgy, kinky, and not afraid to take risks. The one with a liking for basic flip-flops, meanwhile, might be less keen on sexual experimentation. Sometimes my husband and I go out to bars and will, just for fun, look at people’s feet and nothing else. (Until we get them home.)

While you’re in her closet, peruse through her wardrobe. Is it full of blacks and browns, or is there a kaleidoscope of colors inside? Is her closet chock-full of jeans and over sized sweaters, or is there a treasure chest stuffed with costumes? A woman who takes pride in her clothing and wears fitted, flattering garb is definitely more self-confident and sensual than the one who hides behind outfits five sizes too big. And it goes without saying that a woman with a nurse costume in her closet probably won’t shy away from giving her man a little injection of fun.

Also, look in her underwear drawer. If you find a heaping pile of granny panties, it might be safe to deduct she’s not the vixen you’re looking for. And if you find a strap-on dildo - and if that isn’t your thing - now is the time to run for your life.

Oh, and whatever you do, don’t forget to glance over her bedside table. Maybe you’ll find it overflowing with sex toys and flavored condoms. Or maybe the only thing it contains will be a bible and telephone book.

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This is a very interesting and important subject. After all, the topic can get sticky - figuratively and literally. “Wild sex” has more connotations then they sky has stars. For some, wild sex may be experiencing anything they have visualized in their fantasies. For some it is as mild as wearing lingerie or stilettos to bed; for others it is more extreme like playing with different fetishes or BDSM. For others still, wild sex means adding more people to the bedroom. The point being, wild sex is whatever you desire it to be.

In every healthy relationship, lovers experience clichéd, typical sexual experiences. The dry spell or stagnant sex. Usually that happens after many years of being together. We are going to get you back to when you couldn’t contain the wild, crazy, intense attraction you first had for your mate. Remember the time when you wanted to have sex with your lady every time you thought about her? Just the thought of seeing her that evening gave you wood. Yes you remember. We’re going to get you back to that point and keep you there.

There shouldn’t be an expiry date on an out-of-this-world sex life but, eventually, sparks tend to fade away. If you’ve been with your lover for many moons, it’s probably hard to remember a time when you tried anything other than the missionary position. Don’t fret, my pet. With my help you’ll have that wild child back in no time.

Remind your partner of those halcyon days when sex was something you actually looked forward to. Say: “Don’t you remember that?” and then get her thinking about what made it so grand. Think about why you lost it and, then, think about how you can go about getting it back. Your partner holds the answer.

Wild sex, in a nutshell, is sex without borders. It can involve games, food, friends, enemies, strangers, booze, toys, and household appliances. There are no limitations - and there should be no inhibitions when having and enjoying wild sex. Couples should strive for it because when they do, they’ve reached a new and higher level of trust for each other. People have inhibitions because they’re scared. They’re afraid of rejection, afraid of being made fun of, afraid of how others will view them.

If you reach a point in your relationship where you are having totally uninhibited, mind blowing, sex, it’s a terrific sign. It means you’ve not only built a trust and bond with your partner, but have personally become a more confident individual. Both of those things enrich life and make relationships more meaningful.

When the trust and confidence in yourself and your partner are stable, the opportunity to explore your true sexual self and the sexual essence of your partnership will flourish.

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I was not a virgin when I met my husband but after we had our baby, I began to feel like one. We stopped having regular sex and, when we did do it, it lacked enthusiasm. I repressed my sexual appetite post-baby and began acting like Grandma Jones. I was spending my time baking cookies. He found “stress relief” watching porn. Things were getting drier than the Sahara. If you, too, are married to a wife who is more likely to look up banana bread recipes online than how to use one in the bedroom, read on my sexually unsatisfied friend.

Your wife or mate is not the only one suffering from “don’t want sex syndrome.” I had the disease at one point and believe it or not you have the remedy. You posses the ability to free your woman from sexual repression.

Introducing the idea of wild sex to your mate can be an incredibly awkward and potentially unpleasant experience - if done incorrectly. If however, the correct steps are taken, it can be as pleasant and effortless as switching sexual positions. But gentlemen, read carefully, because if you address the issue wrong the first time you might not get a second chance to dance.

I’ve seen a huge success rate in couples that have gone from boring to bootylicious when a man has had the patience and courage to let his lady take the lead. I can understand why you might want to control the situation by way of leading, but this isn’t ballroom dancing.

Instead, gather information and facts about the thing you’re hoping to try, and present the idea to her in a non-threatening environment. Then she’s in control and, when she’s in control, she’ll feel powerful and less tempted to scoff at your “perverted” ideas.

Timing is really essential at this point. You will not get the desired results if you blurt out one night over meatloaf that you have always wanted her to put a saddle on your back, stick a horse-tail butt plug in your ass and holler “giddy up!” Patience. Consider your words. Time your approach.

Venue is important so opt for settings that are either fun and exciting or relaxing and sultry. Think hip Las Vegas style ultra club or sexy candlelight dinner and a bottle of wine. Another fabulous choice would be while basking in the afterglow of making love.

When you begin please remember this word, honesty. Women can handle just about anything you present to them if they feel secure. Insecure women will slam the door shut so tight before the x in the word sex comes out it will take a team of professional locksmith to pry it back open. If she is insecure, the chapters ahead will give you suggestions on how to help her feel the necessary security in herself and your relationship to be more receptive to your “sexually adventurous conversations”.

My adventure into “the lifestyle” was a choice. My husband and I first learned about swinging almost by accident and it appealed to us very quickly. For the majority, that isn’t how it works. Most couples get into swinging after having had long discussions, done countless hours of research, and after much consideration of what it might mean for their relationship. If the concept of swinging is completely foreign to you and your partner, it’s important to handle the topic with a lot of sensitivity, and to be respectful of your partner.

There are many ways to introduce sexual conversations without the worry of being to direct  …

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My husband and I have participated in the lifestyle for a little over 7 years now and enjoy every minute of it. Together we run an online adult company managing over 1500 domains and starring in our flagship site, Brandilove.com. I enjoy being in front of the camera as much as I do behind it directing scenes. I am the company’s CFO, talent coordinator and manager of everything to do with my own site. Once or twice a month I dance at the local Gentleman’s club for an adrenaline rush, also in hopes of bringing home a new playmate. Fast cars, rock concerts, stripping, and shooting porn are among my favorite hobbies. So you ask yourself, “what in the world could this woman know about being a conservative mate?”

Great question so let me explain.

There was a time when my husband would come home to a baggy flannel pant wearing, hair undone, no make-up, and tired with a headache wife. I was mousy. Introverted. Libido-less. For reasons I’ll elaborate on later, I lost my sexual edge fairly early in our marriage. Within three years, the liberated wild child my husband married was gone.

When we met in college, our chemistry was nothing short of electric. We were having wild, mind-blowing, intense sex five or six times a week. Sometimes we would do it several times in one night. We played with food during sex, made love in public places, experimented with toys. We tried everything. The word “limitation” did not exist in our working vocabulary.

Then I became the nightmare wife.

Things changed a few years into our marriage when my parents began imposing their will into our lives. They never quite understood me and hoped that settling down would make me ” more like them”. They thought getting married would mold me into picture perfect wife they preferred and expected me to become.

Family and societal Pressure to conform began to mount and take it’s toll on my self-esteem as well as my marriage. My family sent me a slew of articles and books on “how to be the good wife”. They took jabs at my moral character if they felt my skirt was too short or my top was too low. I remember the looks of horror after entering and winning a bikini contest. And I was practically disowned when I got my breast augmentation. I was finding it harder and harder to just be me in a world that did not really appreciate different.

Despite my inner desire to stay true to myself, pressure coupled with immaturity led me to make a choice against my true nature.  I chose to conform.

I actually chose mundane, conservative, and normal over wild, uninhibited and free.  I chose them over me.  I was not ready for the backlash that one can experience when they do not fit into the norms of society. I had not yet learned that individuality makes the world go around and certainly adds excitement. I had a few more lessons to learn before regaining myself back.

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